Friday, November 6, 2009
So Mad!!
I am a very easy going person. It really takes a lot to make me mad. Well I am mad! Today was Caroline's Award Day. Normally, I wouldn't be able to attend but had taken the day off. I've not been feeling 100 percent but really wanted to be there for her. She worked really hard to make Principal's List. As she left for school, she wanted to make sure I would be there to see her get her award and I let her know that I would be there. So I'm getting ready.....making sure I have lots of cough drops in case I start my coughing spell. I get the baby fed, diaper bag ready, and head out the door. I drive the 15 minutes to her school. Get the baby and make our way into the school. At the door, they are signing people in. One of the helpers says, "I'm sorry but no kids allowed." What??? She says, "Well, it is stated in our handbook." You mean the 100 page one I received in August??? What about the letter that was just sent home. There is nothing about not bringing kids. And this is a school event with kids! Mattie behaves better than most kids and barely makes a sound. So the school denies ME the TAXPAYER the right to watch my child receive an award. They deny me for wanting to SUPPORT my child and her education. What is wrong with this picture? So I ask to speak to the principal. They tell me fine that he'll be out but it didn't make a difference with any other of the parents that he already sent away. I am so fired up mad! I cried the whole way home for missing the chance to watch my baby proudly accept her award. I've written the superintendent of schools and my husband called the school. They said it was due to limited space. If that was the case, how much room does it take if she is sitting on my lap? I even offered to stand by the door. Nope. I know there are many opportunities to support my child but this is just wrong. Am I the only one that thinks this? Do you think a younger sibling should be denied from attending school functions?
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I'm so sorry that happened to you!That just makes no sense to me!
That is HORRIBLE! It brought tears to my eyes. I am of course living in Utah... where we are surrounded by little ones. I don't see that ever happening here. I would be fuming if that ever happened to me. You have every right to be upset. Especially with a lap baby! I am so sorry. That is heartbreaking.... Keep fighting.
I am PISSED right along with you!!! That is ridiculous!! It's school for heaven's sake...should be family oriented. The only time younger siblings shouldn't be allowed is if you are working in the class!!! Go fight this knowing you have many people behind you!!!
Wow...yeah, I'd be pretty mad. It would be different if they had come up with some other plausible reason, more than a "space issue" since she's on your lap. That's ridiculous.
I agree with you TOTALLY. That STINKS!!! I would fight tooth and nail. What a stupid policy! GRRR
That sucks! I'm so sorry you were forced to miss the award ceremony!
Oh my gosh, how can a public school have that rule? I would be pissed, how many stay at home moms can leave their younger sibs home. Not to many. I would keep fighting this.
I've NEVER heard of a policy like that! That's just awful & mean.
That doesn't just stink, that sucks! I would be so pissed off!!! Excuse my language but that is ridiculous!
I have never heard of anything so freakin' ridiculous!!!! Those idiots!! Excuse my words but , you've got to be kidding. I am so sorry that happened to you. I would fight all the way. Call everyone... newspaper and T.V too. The nerve of them to deny you that special moment.
That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard of....you have every right to be mad! I'm with Stephanie....call the newspaper and the tv station...bet it would be interesting to them.
Wow! I can understand not letting children in to visit patients at the hospital but at the school that is filled with kids? Something is wrong with that. Thank You so much for your kinds words and support. I am feeling an overwhelming feeling of love from so many. Thank You
Oh, that's just ridiculous! This is when you go to the school board meetings and tell them to change the freaking handbook!
I am so sorry they made you miss that special moment in Caroline's life. I am with the others call TV, newspaper, basically anyone who will listen. I would send letters to your State Representatives also. Fight this all the way. What they did is not right!! Tell Caroline her Aunt Nettie is really proud of her and to keep up the good work.. I love you all.
That is ridiculous! They stopped letting siblings come on field trips here but haven't started with banning them from award ceremonies yet. Make sure you go to the next school board meeting and let them know how you feel. Also, if this is a new policy then why didn't they make mention of it prior to the assembly? It really stinks!
That is ridiculous! They stopped letting siblings come on field trips here but haven't started with banning them from award ceremonies yet. Make sure you go to the next school board meeting and let them know how you feel. Also, if this is a new policy then why didn't they make mention of it prior to the assembly? It really stinks!
Being punished for being a supportive parent. That is just INSANE!
I'm with you! That's crazy. Do they WANT future students at their school or do they want to alienate families? Like you said, space was not an issue if you were to stand and hold your child. I'd be very angry, too. There are enough deadbeat parents out there that wouldn't attend, but here they're turning down an involved, attentive parent. Bad school politics...
I'm with everyone else...that does stink! Sorry you had to miss Caroline getting her award. On a more positive note...Way to go Caroline!! What a great achievement to work so hard for! =)
I would be so upset too! So sorry you had to miss the award ceremony :(
That is just WRONG! I have never heard of such a thing. There are always siblings at award ceremonies!
That is crazy and wrong! Oh, I would have been fuming! I hope you get your point across to the school.
And congrats for Caroline!
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